3C’s To The Perfect Relationship!

By July 2, 2020 September 4th, 2020 Articles


You must KNOW the path you desire to be on (or desire to follow). You must decide in your body/mind, so every cell is aligned with everything you do moving towards your goal. Without this commitment your unconscious mind, which runs 90% of who we are, will not be open to see the opportunities the universe will provide for you. Once you commit, you will see and move forward to achieve your desired results.  FOCUS IS POWER!  Especially in the 3C’s To The Perfect Relationship!

    2 – CONNECT

    This is our biggest challenge: to connect with our true essence of who we are and who we want to become. In order to achieve anything in life you must learn to MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS. Emotions control our decisions; decisions shape your future. When you master your emotions, you master your life! Understand that feelings are fleeting. They come and go like clouds in the sky, they can be beautiful, or they can be destructive. It’s up to you to decide if they serve you or handicap…  COMMIT TO EXCELLENCE!

    “Master Your Emotions, Master Your Life!”


    Next is the ability to be able to communicate these feelings of what we desire and who we are, YES? It’s called influence AND negotiation! Once you are in charge of your emotions, and NOT MAKE OTHERS WRONG, you’ll find a mutual solution to achieve what you both desire.  

    Zig Ziglar once said; “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.”  Because without communicating our emotions and feelings we are just a dictator of others. And dictators take what they want and do not care about what others want or their feelings.  Much in the same way individuals are taking control of our cities, speech and ideas in todays society.  IT WILL NOT WORK! This is not the way WE AS AMERICANS, OR GLOBAL INDIVIDUALS will move forward. We must honor and respect each other first in order to negotiate and satisfy our needs to better our world!  

    If you are a successful individual, you know that without conflict there is no success!  Conflict can bring understanding and learning, not selfishness and destruction.  There is POWER in problems! They are lessons in disguise. Great leaders are great problems solvers not problem aggravators.  

    If you have decided and are committed to creating a wonderful relationship, in a wonderful world, solve problems for yourself and for others! BECOME A LEARNER, A LEADER, A LOVER IN YOUR OWN LIFE FIRST!  Again, especially in the 3C’s To The Perfect Relationship!

    To your success, John
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    (This article I wrote was specifically written for the Beverly Hills Times magazine!)

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    John James Santangelo PhD

    Author John James Santangelo PhD

    John James Santangelo PhD - nationally acclaimed speaker, author, seminar leader, and business results coach, has been a guiding force in empowering individuals, businesses, and corporations to excel at peak performance. John is a foremost authority in success principles and expert in the field of communication; an NLP trainer and clinical hypnotherapist. He has worked with companies such as The Learning Annex, Los Angeles Sheriffs Dept., Mary Kay Inc, Multiple-Sclerosis Society, Make-A-Wish Foundation, Well-Point, Xerox, RE/MAX Realtors, the Teamsters Union, and the US Army counter-intelligence team. Whether you’re looking to fulfill short/long term goals, increase your sales performance, or hire John for your next event, John will help you achieve that success! Visit www.LANLP.com or call (818) 879-2000

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